one of the silliest things I've ever read by a professional:
If someone exercises and THINKS of it as exercise they are a couch potato. OR, you MUST think the way a certain other person thinks to be successful?
I used to do this. I'm guilty of it. But not anymore.
You will not help people get off their asses by assigning your values to them. This is just a symptom of an inability to put yourself in other's places and help them figure out what motivates THEM as an individual. Having only a hammer and everything looking like a nail is a BAD thing, lol.